Want to get that girl of your
dreams to like you? Then read
on to see my few but effective
tips to get you started.
Have your own life Having
your own life simply means that
you should stick to what you've
always been doing even before
you met her e.g hanging out
with friends, involving yourself
with your hobbies and goals etc.
That way she'll see you as a
positive person and someone
who'll be fun to hang out with.
Make an impression
Try to
impress her but not in a creepy
way, don't boast or brag about
your plans, goals and
achievements, be nice to others
around her e.g her friends.
Be friends with her
Be her
friend but not too often
because it might make you look
obsessed and a stalker, listen to
her.
Talk to her
Speak to her once
in a while so it doesn't look like
you've forgotten her, associate
with her, tell her what you
enjoy doing, what makes you
excited, ask her about her's, be
positive, try being sincere and
always listen to what she says.
Flirt with her
Try making
brief eye
contact, smile, relax, strike up a
conversation and be careful, so
you don't exceed your
boundaries.
Be romantic
Being romantic
means acknowledging and
appreciating how a person is in
a very sincere and calm manner,
which also means
demonstrating that you know
her better than anyone else in
the world. Think about what
get's her excited, find and do
things that only her will
appreciate.
Physically get closer to her
This means breaking off the
touch barrier e.g giving her your
hand when she's walking or
stepping on an uneven surface,
holding out your hand so you
can lead her through a crowd,
whenever she's sad or worried,
slightly lay your hand on her
shoulder to comfort her. Be
quick to stop if you notice any
sign of discomfort and be
careful and lay your hand lightly
on her when touching her so
you don't look like a weirdo.
Compliment her
Do this by
letting her know how unique
she is e.g commenting on her
shirt, how beautiful she is, her
hairstyle, her smile and above all,
her personality. Always
remember, the more unique the
compliment the better.
Humor her
Do this by making
her laugh, tell jokes, funny
stories, watch comedies with
her, just think of things that'll
make her laugh. And NEVER Joke
about her, as it might irritate
her.
Ask her out
Invite her to go
somewhere or to do something
with you, make sure it's
something you're both
interested in, show interest in
her world and affairs, do
something simple together,
probably with a small group of
friends, so you can get to know
her better.
Always look good You can
do this by being neat and clean,
dressing nice, work out and
shaving your hair and keeping
your beard neat and tidy.
Make her feel important
Women loves to feel important
and high valued, try using the
next to difficult contact method
available in contacting her, don't
always use cheap contact
methods in contacting her or
getting her personal info. By
doing this, she'll feel important
and high valued.
Try teasing her
Don't do this in an
aggressive or offending
manner, do no raise your voice
at her.
By implementing the above
steps, she'll gradually be
attracted to you mutually,
intimately and in a romantic
way. After all, she's human,
right?